“RECONCILIATION”

“RECONCILIATION”

A kaleidoscopic tumbling of emotions pierces conversations, thoughts and social media as words are spoken, written, texted and issues of racism, colonialism, fear and hatred surface. 

While we know that words can wound … we sometimes forget that words can also heal.   While we know that words can cause confusion … we sometimes forget that words can also bring hope.   While we know that words can bring division … we also forget that words can also bring reconciliation.  

Reconciliation … a much-talked-about word in many places and is a word that has begun to be put into action.   This day is a national holiday in Canada.  Every year on September 30th, the “National Day for Truth and Reconciliation” is marked to encourage Canadians to engage with their colonial history, to raise awareness of indigenous cultures, and to honour the survivors of the Canadian Residential School system.  That system forcibly removed more than 150,000 First Nations, Inuit and Métis children from their families, subjected them to assimilationist policies, as well as other broader injustices faced by indigenous peoples under colonial rule.  This day, Orange Shirt Day, many wear orange-coloured shirts as a reminder of the missing children.

When apartheid ended in South Africa,  the government sought to transform December 16th into an annual symbol of unity rather than division, creating the National Day of Reconciliation to reflect on the country’s progress in overcoming its painful past, to promote social cohesion across racial and cultural divides, and to raise consciousness about historical injustice. 

As issues of racism and colonialism are rising throughout the world, giving fear and hatred through words., the word ‘reconciliation’ must become a reality – within our families, communities, countries, globally – for we all share this planet Earth.

In the exchange of words, may there be sensitivity to those whose opinion differs from our own.  May we be empowered with compassion for those who are hurt by the opinions of others. 

May we be enabled to move beyond woundedness, confusion, and fear, and not retaliate with words that wound, confuse, and instil even more fear.   

And may we be energized with hope … hope that gives life … hope that encourages … hope that empowers reconciliation in word and action.

May we “find the courage to look at our past with eyes wide open, unafraid to see our country at its worst and then humbly, take steps to heal the damage done.”  (Globe and Mail)

Holy Word, be with us.

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“RAINDROPS OF TEARS”

“RAINDROPS OF TEARS”

I was in awe when this exquisite flower first opened its petals.

Awe filled my heart even more as raindrops fell
leaving their mark on the exquisite petals
…  tenderly embracing
……… gently blessing
…………. its fragile petals.

When raindrops of sorrow touch our bodies, minds, souls,
may we allow the tears to well up and flow
and healing can begin
… tenderly embracing
…….. gently blessing
…………. our fragile souls.

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“REMEMBER”

“REMEMBER”

On this 23rd anniversary of 9-11, the world remembers.
We remember the fear, the terror, the bravery, the sacrifice, the horror of it all.

The world specifically remembers
… the First Responders who died.

The world remembers
… those who struggle with ill health since being near Ground Zero.

The world remembers
… those killed in the twin towers & planes.

The world remembers
… those who continue to grieve
… those who deal with PTSD and health issues because of that day.

The United States went through a devastating time September 11th.
The United States is going through a turbulent time now.
Canadians stood with our American neighbours then.
Canadians stand with our American neighbours now.

May each of us … remember the day… remember the lessons
… remember.


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“GARDEN CHURCH”

“GARDEN CHURCH”

This weekend, I experienced ‘Garden Church’.

Garden Church?

If a church is a place for worship, and worship is an expression of praise,  reverence and thanksgiving, then surely a garden with flowers and bees, colour and birds, fruit and grass, trees and bushes, and even bugs and weeds can be a place of worship.

An encounter with Garden Church can nourish the soul and nurture a sense of deep gratitude.
Garden Church can be a gentle reminder of the gift of creation and the miracle of birth, growth, life.

Time spent in Garden Church can be sacred and holy.
It can offer an opportunity for meditation, prayer, reflection, worship, praise, healing, thanksgiving, intercession and gentle, spiritual growth.

Spending time in Garden Church (aka, the back yard and deck with plants in planters) among the colourful flowers, bees, burgeoning strawberries, fruit trees, bugs, shrubs, weeds, the silence, the shining sun and gentle warmth are a healing welcome to my body that seems to ache more and more with each passing year.

Sometimes I experience Garden Church on a walk around the neighbourhood, listening to the calls of the birds, the chatter and joy of the children, enjoying the beauty of flowers and plants in the front yards of my neighbours.

But it’s not just on sunny days that Garden Church calls me.
Overcast and rainy days are also opportunities for Garden Church.
I love it when Garden Church is inspired by nourishing rain, gently watering the plants, grass and flowers in the garden (like these pansies) and bringing beauty to my day.

Garden Church, thank you. 
You deepen my appreciation of nature.
You nourish my understanding of the created order.
You deepen my sense of spirituality in ways that touch my soul.
You bring an awareness of the blessings around me in ordinary ways – often when and where I least expect them.  Truly, I am blessed when I experience Garden Church.

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“Do You Remember aka A Touch of the Holy”

“Do You Remember aka A Touch of the Holy”

Do you remember 
– when you surprised yourself by singing … creating …  laughing out loud … dancing a few steps in an unexpected time/location?

 – when the contrast of sky and trees … night and day … sunrise and sunset – brought a sense of wonder that
 filled your soul?

 –  when a deep part of you that you’d long forgotten was awakened by the colour of a flower … the sound of      an instrument … the taste of a meal … the touch of love … a moment of silence in the midst of a chaotic day?

– when the laughter of a child … the smell of a newborn … the antics of a pet … the unexpected embrace of a
loved one … the personal words that accompanied a “Happy Birthday” greeting  … the fragility of life … the flutter of a hummingbird’s wings … reminded you that there was “something more” to this world?

– when you followed that “still, small voice within” making a decision?

–  when the concept of sacredness brought a sense of peace to your soul … and you couldn’t explain it to
anyone, or even yourself?

 –  when, in spite of personal difficulties, fears, doubts, you … chose to put one step in front of the other … chose to take the day, one moment at a time … chose to whisper ‘hope is possible’.

These are moments when we touch the holy – the sacred – that which moves us to a sense of awe, that “je ne sais quoi” because it is indefinable, inexplicable, and deeply moves us to a place/space of reverence that can but does not need to be connected to the common understanding of the divine.

Those are moments when the Holy as we understand it, touches us.

In these difficult days of political rhetoric … divided families … countries at/on the brink of war … flagrant lies from people in leadership positions … financial instability … diminishing health … global climate concerns … and more, may we be observant to the holy, remember the moments when we have touched the holy, and be receptive to the moments when the Holy touched us for, whether we use that word, we have encountered Something Beyond Ourselves and it changes us – whether we know it, whether we acknowledge it, whether we believe it or not.

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“TRIGGER MOMENTS”

“TRIGGER MOMENTS”

Trigger Moments – they come; they go; they can ambush without consent.

Trigger Moments bring us back to a time and place with a loved one who has died or who is dying … who has dementia and whose mind is dying … who is missing and not yet found … a much-loved canine/feline friend who has died or for whom we have made the difficult decision for a veterinarian-assisted death.

Trigger Moments enter conversations and thoughts in other ways … catalyst for recovering addicts/alcoholics to slip …  PTSD flashbacks …  COVID19 when thoughts of “what was, is no longer” surround and affect on all levels: body, mind and spirit. 

Trigger Moments can be sweet. 
Trigger Moments can cause deep pain.
Trigger Moments can intensify the desire to have “just one more” conversation … one more laugh … one more time to travel … one more opportunity to be together in holy silence in the Studio or garden, creating … one more embrace … just one more “we” moment. 

When those Trigger Moments show up, when the tears flow and we are helpless to stop them, it is natural to want to “get over it.”   I know that I do. 

Instead, I let the tears flow … do some gentle, deep breathing … and acknowledge that the tears and sadness are part of the grief experience and I am not “losing it”.

Trigger Moments.  In those moments, I know I need to care for – and take care of – my husband’s wife … me. 

And I do – finding comfort in sitting on our deck beside the chair my husband used … sipping cold lemonade, enjoying the peace, quiet and beauty of our back yard … feeling his presence in a gentle way … and knowing that eventually, the Trigger Moment which left me reeling with the pain of loss, will pass.

I know that Trigger Moments are a natural part of healing from loss. 
I don’t like them. 
I know that there will be other Trigger Moments.

All I can do when they come is … let the tears flow and deep breathing happen … remember that such moments are part of the grief experience … recognize and accept the reality that in time, healing will come … take comfort in the words of the prophet Isaiah “joy shall come, even in the wilderness”.

Grief is part of life. 

Trigger Moments come. 
Trigger Moments go. 
May they not be resented.   May they not be despised. 
May they be welcomed
as part of the grieving process
as part of the healing process
as part of the circle of life.



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“THREE QUESTIONS”

“THREE QUESTIONS”

Three questions …
Let’s have some fun together.  

Question number 1:
“What is knowledge?”

Question number 2:
“What is wisdom?”

Question number 3:
“What is philosophy?”

Did you come up with some great answers?
Here are my responses
and no, they’re not “deep” answers,
but they are “fun” answers.  
Or, they are to me.  😉

Here goes …

KNOWLEDGE
IS
knowing a tomato is a fruit.

 


WISDOM
IS
not putting the tomato in a fruit salad.

 

PHILOSOPHY
IS
wondering if having a tomato in a fruit salad means
that ketchup is a smoothie.

 

Ahhh, a sense of humour can be a wonderful survival tool.   
And goodness knows but we can all use a bit of gentle humour these days.  🙂

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The tomato plant in this photo was last year’s attempt to grow tomatoes.
This year, I didn’t even do this well!   
I got four mini tomatoes
and no, they weren’t supposed to be mini tomatoes.
My guess is that I didn’t water the plant enough.
I’ll try again next year.  
And remember to water the plant each morning.  🙂


 

“TODAY I AWOKE”

“TODAY I AWOKE”

Long ago, Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius was born.
Considered to be one of the most important Stoic philosophers,
Aurelius penned these words:
“When you arise in the morning,
think of what a privilege it is to be alive:
to breathe,
to think,
to enjoy,
to love.”


The world seems to be going crazy on so many levels.
It would be easy to give way to the fear, the anger, the hopelessness, the racism, the hatred.

It would be easy
…. but I refuse to give power to evil.


Today, I awoke.
… I am grateful.

Today, I awoke.
I could breathe.
… I am grateful.

Today, I awoke.
I could think.
… I am grateful.

Today, I awoke,
I enjoyed something.
Many things.
… I am grateful.

Today, I awoke.
I loved.
… I am grateful.

Each day,
may we waken
and find something each day
… no matter how small
for which we are grateful.

I picked these flowers from my garden.
I am grateful for them
and I am grateful
that today,
I awoke.


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The flowers are from my garden on Vancouver Island, British Columbia, Canada.

JULY 4th: All Men (sic) Are Created Equal?

JULY 4th: All Men (sic) Are Created Equal?

“We hold these truths to be self-evident,
that all men <sic> are created equal.”

Tomorrow is July 4th and Americans will be marking Independence Day and its adoption of their Declaration of Independence in 1776 which includes this phrase: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men <sic> are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”


“All are created equal… have certain unalienable Rights”.   Really?    Unalienable rights since the decision by six men on the U.S. Supreme Court?

Each day I see my bleeding hearts in the back yard wave in the wind and am grateful for ‘bleeding heart’ people around the world who speak out to support those in desperate situations.  On this July 4th weekend, I particularly remember and pray for ‘bleeding heart’ Americans who are

… naming the injustice of the SCOTUS decision

… talking about Project 2025 and acknowledging that it has begun and that it is real

… speaking out in support of minorities who face racism, hatred, victimization.

… in solidarity with women who have been told that even if their pregnancy were caused by incest or rape or that their life were in danger, there would be no health care for them

… in compassion for children whose parents can’t provide for adequate housing, medical/dental care, nourishing food, schooling, socialization

… in support of physicians who follow the principles of medical ethics (which include medical confidentiality and non-maleficence, that is not to inflict harm) who, forced to break medical confidentiality by revealing the names of women seeking abortions will commit maleficence (to cause emotional harm) to those who have been become pregnant through rape or incest

… allies of LGBTQ2S+ and those in racially mixed marriages whose lives will be dramatically changed if draconian laws are implemented

… people who stand up for, stand beside, and stand with people of differing ethnicities, skin colours, sexualities, abilities, religions who are mocked, ridiculed, harassed, physically attacked, killed

It is difficult to wish “Happy July 4th” this year when so many are not equal even though the United States Declaration of Independence (posted at the end of this reflection), notes that all  citizens “are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”   

 

They may be “endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights,” but those Rights are swiftly being eroded and destroyed by politicians who have forgotten, or have chosen to ignore, the oaths they took to “support and defend” the Constitution of the United States. 

It is difficult to wish Americans “Happy July 4th” for all of the above and more.   And yet – and yet there is hope. 

May the people of the United States have courage and strength, vision and persistence to Keep on, Keeping On in the pursuit of their unalienable rights by speaking out, speaking up and voting “blue” in November – voting for people who will bring the country back to the democratic vision of their founding fathers and mothers. 

Viva les ‘bleeding hearts’!   May they continue standing up and speaking out so that inalienable rights will truly be honoured and all will be equal.

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The Declaration of Independence, July 4, 1776

On July 2, 1776, Congress voted to dissolve the connection between “this country” and Great Britain, declaring the “United Colonies of North America” to be free and independent states.

 

IN CONGRESS, JULY 4, 1776  The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America:

“When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, — That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security. — Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.

He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.

He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.

He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their Public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.

He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected, whereby the Legislative Powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.

He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary Powers.

He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people and eat out their substance.

He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil Power.

He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:

For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:

For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:

For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefit of Trial by Jury:

For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences:

For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies

For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:

For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.

He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.

He has plundered our seas, ravaged our coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.

He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation, and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & Perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.

He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.

He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these united Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States, that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. — And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor.

New Hampshire: Josiah Bartlett, William Whipple, Matthew Thornton

Massachusetts: John Hancock, Samuel Adams, John Adams, Robert Treat Paine, Elbridge Gerry

Rhode Island: Stephen Hopkins, William Ellery

Connecticut: Roger Sherman, Samuel Huntington, William Williams, Oliver Wolcott

New York: William Floyd, Philip Livingston, Francis Lewis, Lewis Morris

New Jersey: Richard Stockton, John Witherspoon, Francis Hopkinson, John Hart, Abraham Clark

Pennsylvania: Robert Morris, Benjamin Rush, Benjamin Franklin, John Morton, George Clymer, James Smith, George Taylor, James Wilson, George Ross

Delaware: Caesar Rodney, George Read, Thomas McKean

Maryland: Samuel Chase, William Paca, Thomas Stone, Charles Carroll of Carrollton

Virginia:
George Wythe, Richard Henry Lee, Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Harrison, Thomas Nelson, Jr., Francis Lightfoot Lee, Carter Braxton

North Carolina: William Hooper, Joseph Hewes, John Penn

South Carolina: Edward Rutledge, Thomas Heyward, Jr., Thomas Lynch, Jr., Arthur Middleton

Georgia: Button Gwinnett, Lyman Hall, George Walton

FOR JUST ONE DAY

FOR JUST ONE DAY

Proud to be a Canadian?  Yep.   
Happy to be a Canadian?   Very much.
Grateful to be a Canadian?  … Understatement.


However you will be marking another anniversary of this country, there is much that is good, in spite of the frustrations and problems. 

It is easy to criticize.
It is easy to point fingers and question.
It is easy to wish history revealed different stories.


I doubt there is one country which can claim to be without frustration, dismay, embarrassment, anger, disappointment, shame or combination thereof, as people reflect on the history of their country at some time or other.

For one day – just one day – how about we celebrate … not dwell on the negative. 
For one day – just one day – how about we focus on the goodness of this country … and not complain.
For one day – just one day, – how about we express gratitude … for the privilege of being Canadian.   

May all have a happy and safe Canada Day weekend – to all Canadians and all Canadian-wanna-be’s.  🙂


 


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