“MOMMY, DADDY, I DON’T UNDERSTAND”

“MOMMY, DADDY, I DON’T UNDERSTAND”

A child asks the everpresent question and the parents try to respond.

Sarah: “Daddy, Mommy, I don’t understand why some of the kids are so mean to Juanita and Shiandra. They say it’s something about them not being really part of our country because they don’t have the right skin colour.”

Daddy: “Well, Sarah, some people think that skin colour determines the goodness of a person and they don’t think these children are good.”

Sarah: “But they are! They’re good and kind and fun and I like them! I don’t understand.”

Mommy: “We don’t either, Sarah. Like these three eggs – each of you is different on the outside, but on the inside, you’re all the same … same colour blood, same organs, same ability to laugh and hurt and feel compassion and know what is right from wrong and …”

Sarah: “If only we could all just have our insides be our outsides.”


© June Maffin
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“A LETTER”

A letter to my American neighbours, sisters and brothers

Dear friends,
What has been happening in your country is beyond imagining: the hatred
the fear; the bomb scares this past week; this morning’s deadly shooting at the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh; the lack of concerned / caring / pastoral response by your leader in the White House.

You may feel alone. You may feel helpless. You may feel frightened as you have never felt before. You may not have the strength or courage to face “the next.”  Please be assured that there are people around the world who are holding you all in the Light; are praying for you; are “with you” in spirit; are hoping and praying and encouraging you to vote in your mid-term elections in numbers your country has never seen before.

May you vote with hope.  May you vote love, not hate.  May you vote.

June Maffin, a friend and one of your northern neighbours who aches with you and prays for you all.

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“TODAY”

“TODAY”

Today.   Today I took a photo of three red maple leaves, prepared the garden for winter, went to our local Farmer’s Market, visited a friend who is recovering from surgery, went to a fun community sing-a-long of the Mary Poppins movie, and voted in our local elections.

Today was a day like many others.  And yet it was different.  It was different because (as well as being blessed by all of the other things I did), I was blessed by living in this country where I am free … free to garden … free to shop … free to visit friends … free to join in community activities … and free to vote.  Free to vote without fear – fear … of harassment … of recrimination … of violence … of interference.  Free to research the issues and the candidates. Free to vote the way I choose.  Not everyone can do that.

Some may say that it was co-incidental that today was the day I ‘happened’ to see the red maple leaves on the ground, ‘happened’ to take their photo, and that it all ‘happened’ on the day of our municipal elections.   Nope – nothing ‘happenstance’ about it.   There aren’t many maple trees with bright red leaves where I live, and seldom have I seen them up close, still vibrant in colour.  As I bent down to see the three red maple leaves, and take their photo, I remembered something I’d learned a long time ago … a history lesson which told about a time (long  before the first European settlers arrived in Canada) when Canada’s aboriginal people (our First Nations people) had discovered the food properties of maple sap which they gathered every spring and how that discovery of the importance of the maple leaf deeply affected Canadian history.

While many historians trace the maple leaf’s service as a Canadian national symbol as early as 1700, its first official recognition was 1867 when Alexander Muir composed the unofficial anthem in English-speaking Canada, ‘The Maple Leaf Forever.’   Not surprisingly, the Canadian flag has a lovely bright red maple leaf in its centre.  Raised on Parliament Hill in Ottawa for the first time on February 15, 1965, the red maple leaf has since become the most-recognized symbol of Canada, symbolizing unity, tolerance and peace.  Voting today, and all that the privilege, responsibility and blessing of voting means to me, was graphically illustrated in those three bright red maple leaves I ‘happened’ to see.

Today.

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“I AM A PERSON”

“I AM A PERSON”

I am a person.  That may seem to be a rather strange thing to post, but before October 18, 1929, in Canada, women were *not* persons.

But on October 18, 1929, Canadian women were declared “persons” under Canadian law.  And for that, I give thanks to five ‘persons’… the Famous Five: Henrietta Muir Edwards, Nellie Mooney McClung, Louise Crummy McKinney, Emily Murphy, Irene Marryat Parlby … and the men who “stood with them.” (http://www.famou5.ca/the-persons-case/)

I am a person.   And I will vote – with gratitude (after familiarizing myself with the candidates by reading their literature, asking them questions, participating in all-candidates meetings) in local elections, provincial elections, federal elections.    I hope that all other ‘persons’ will, too.

(When were women declared to be persons: The last line of the judgement reads, “Understood to mean ‘Are women eligible for appointment to the Senate of Canada,’ the question is answered in the negative.” This judgement was overturned by the British Judicial Committee of the Privy Council on October 18, 1929. This case came to be known as the “Persons Case”).


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“MUDDY MESS WORLD”

“MUDDY MESS WORLD”

The world is a Muddy Mess.  Russia, China, North Korea – just say the words and people shudder. Think Syria and images of shattered lives jump out. Picture Guatemala and Hawaii and dangerous lava flows, rather than holiday-time on the beach, come to mind. Remember Puerto Rico and phrases like “still no electricity a year later!” and images of a President throwing rolls of paper towels flash into view.

Daily, we learn of fires, floods, tornadoes; unsafe drinking water, hurricanes; homelessness, addiction, mental health issues, poverty in developing countries and developed countries, and children who are being abducted, prostituted and held in prison-like conditions.  Watch what is happening in the United States, and, well … it’s a muddy, Muddy Mess World!

And then something happens to remind us of hope … the kind about  which poet Emily Dickinson wrote: “Hope is the thing with feathers That perches in the soul, and sings the tune without the words, and never stops at all, and sweetest in the gale is heard; and sore must be the storm that could abash the little bird That kept so many warm.”

That hope showed up for me when a neighbour’s child strutted past my front window in her mother’s high heel shoes … well, maybe ‘strut’ isn’t the right word … more like ‘wobbled’.   A smile broke out on my face, hope filled my heart, and joy flooded my soul.

That hope showed up for me when I experienced barefoot, dirty, hungry little children standing (as there was no room for them to sit in a tiny room in an impossibly crowded refugee camp in Sri Lanka) and sang with glorious smiles on their faces as their eyes lit-up with excitement and happiness.  I remember a smile breaking out on my face, hope filling my heart and joy flooding my soul.

As I think of the Muddy Mess this world is in, as I wonder what kind of a world we are leaving these children and their children and their children, I focus on those two images: the children in the refugee camp in Sri Lanka; the neighbour child in high heels crossing the street.  They remind me to not give away my hope.  Negative thinking doesn’t do me any good.  Negative thinking doesn’t do any good for the children. Negative thinking doesn’t do any good for this Muddy Mess World.

So I look to hopeful images.  They remind me of the power I have to make a difference in my little corner of the world … to vote … to pray …to be active in my community … to do what I can to keep this community safe … to stay strong and hope-filled and take a lesson from the children – keep playing, keep laughing, keep dancing, keep singing. In spite of the grief, in spite of the fear, in spite of the angst and stress and worry … there are children in this Muddy Mess World playing dress-up, singing, dancing, playing baseball with pebbles from the bombed-out buildings.  We must not let negative energy cloud our ability to hope … and believe … that this Muddy Mess World *will* get cleaned up.

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“WE ARE ALL UNFI”

“WE ARE ALL UNFI”

My name is UNFI. I’m not pretty. I’m not adorable. And I’m not finished.
Far from it. I am ‘unfinished.’ UNFI for short.

But I am “becoming” finished. So are you, dear reader … none of us has yet ‘arrived’ … none of us is ‘finished’ – yet In a way, we are all UNFI.

And just as the creator, who created me delights in me, so too does the Creator who created you … delight in you … just as you are … on the road to ‘becoming finished”.  We are all UNFI.   🙂

An aside: UNFI is a puppet and in her ‘unfinished’ state, she was entered into the puppet category at the Fall Cowichan Exhibition and was awarded Second Prize.  And no, I’m not going to ‘finish’ her for if I did, she would no longer be my teacher and remind me that I have not-yet-arrived, that I am in the process-of-becoming, and that I too am UNFI.  🙂

 

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